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Eating the flesh of Joseph Prince

By kenny, 27 November, 2009, 7 Comments
Eating the flesh of Joseph Prince

There are things preachers and pastors can learn from Joseph Prince, the pastor of New Creation Church.

Leadership- then and now

By kenny, 6 November, 2009, 3 Comments

O Lord you are there to help!Leadership was once about hard skills such as planning, finance, and business analysis. When command and control ruled the world, organization leaders were heroic rationalists who moved people around like pawns and fought like stags. When they spoke, the staff jumped.

Today, organizational leadership is increasingly concerned with soft skills—teamwork, communication, and motivation. Sadly for many top-level leaders, the soft skills remain the hardest to understand, let alone master.

Leadership in a modern organization is highly complex and increasingly difficult. Among the most crucial skills is the ability to capture your listener’s attention. Leaders of the future will also have to be emotionally efficient. They will promote variation rather than promoting people in their own likeness. They will encourage experimentation and enable people to learn from failure. They will build and develop people.

This may be too much to expect of one person. In the future, we will see more leadership groups rather than individual leaders. This change in emphasis from individuals towards groups has been charted by the leadership guru, Warren Bennis. In his work Organizing Genius, he concentrates on famous ground-breaking groups rather than individual leaders. “None of us is as smart as all of us,” says Professor Bennis. “The Lone Ranger is dead. Instead of the individual problem-solver, we have a new model for creative achievement. People like Steve Jobs or Walt Disney headed groups and found their own greatness in them.”

Professor Bennis provides a blueprint for the new model leader. “He or she is a pragmatic dreamer, a person with an original but attainable vision. Inevitably, the leader has to invent a style that suits the group. The standard models, especially command and control, simply don’t work. The heads of groups have to act decisively, but never arbitrarily. They have to make decisions without limiting the perceived autonomy of the other participants. Devising an atmosphere in which others can put a dent in the universe is the leader’s creative act.”

The role of the new model leader is ridden with contradictions. Paradox and uncertainty are increasingly at the heart of leading. Many leaders don’t like ambiguity, so they try to shape the environment to resolve the ambiguity. This may not be the best thing to do—the most effective leaders are flexible, responsive to new situations. If they are adept at hard skills, they surround themselves with people who are proficient with soft skills. They strike a balance.

The “leader as coach” is yet another phrase more often seen in business books than in the real world. Acting as a coach to a colleague is not something that comes easily to many senior-level leaders. It is increasingly common for executives to benefit from a mentoring relationship. They need to talk through decisions and to think through the impact of their behavior on others in the organization.

Today’s leaders regard leadership as drawing people and disparate parts of the organization together in ways that makes individuals and the organization more effective.

Adapted from Jonathan Farrington, What Leadership Was and What It Will Become 11 March 07

Pastor compensation feeling the pinch

By kenny, 6 November, 2009, No Comment

A recent Christianity Today International survey shows the compensation package paid to the average pastor (including salary, housing allowance/parsonage, life/health/disability insurance, education and retirement) in the USA has declined in 2009 by 2.4% for lead pastors to an average of $70,806. The average for senior pastors who lead multiple pastoral staff declined 0.5% to $80,745. The average for solo pastors was down 6.6% to $56,189, which means solo pastors lost more than $300 per month in salary and benefits. In 2008, pastors received a slight bump up in salaries. The decline, in part, was caused by wage freezes in many congregations. -Christianity Today, ChristianNewsWire, Pastor’s Weekly Briefing 18/o9/09

Today’s pastors need encouragement

By kenny, 12 October, 2009, 12 Comments

Thank you Lord for creative and caring members

I was so blessed to receive a gift the other Sunday. It was not a box of mooncakes. Rather, something more precious:  a wooden box  with a beautiful handpainted rainbow, the word “Inspiring” and my name “Kenny”. Each of the English adult congregation pastor received one – each unique. Inside the box were well-crafted and anonymous personal notes of appreciation and affirmation. I read mine a few times and was encouraged. There are always warm and loving people in church who are spiritually alert and know when their pastors need encouragement and they do something about it.

They are like  Jonathan, that rare gem, the covenant brother of David.

Your love for me abounds. Thank You Lord.

It is often forgotten that every pastor needs encouragement just as much as members. In fact, they need it even more. For many reasons too.

For one, they had entered the ministry with a passion to make a difference in people’s lives, but it frustrates and pulls them down when their expectations have not been matched with reality on the ground. People change so little and so slowly. Some even get worse. Some members show so much of their dark sides, it makes pastors feel like Elijah under the juniper tree.

The ministry is very demanding and people have unrealistic expectations of their pastors. To worsen things, the pastor lives in a Web 2.0 world where his members can hear the best preachers in town and the world, and be unfairly  compared to and criticized. In addition, the pastor pushes himself constantly, and even lays his health and family on the altar of people’s immature expectations .

Another pastoral struggle is the fight in the mind against anxiety and fear. Even more vexing is the struggle to embrace ambiguity, paradox and suffering in ministry.

Pastors  get burnt out from prolonged labour and no sabbaticals; weary from working with meagre fruit to show for sacrifices put in; and from being misunderstood and hurt.

To worsen things are professional critics who think they are doing the church good by criticizing with disdain and disregard the weaknesses of the church and pastors.

Satan is of course always searching for unmended gaps in the fence of unity through which to discourage, harass, attack pastors. Centuries of expertise has informed their strategies. “Get the leader and the sheep will suffer,” the devil officer will tell his demon soldiers. “Use the church members and it doubles the impact of hurt and discouragement.”

When David was running for his life with the state army of king Saul searching for him in the wilderness of Ziph, he was filled with discouragement and fear.  Jonathan risked angering his father Saul, and found David and encouraged him:

And Saul’s son Jonathan went to David at Horesh and helped him find strength in God. “Don’t be afraid,”  he said. ‘My father Saul will not lay a hand on you. You will be king over Israel, and I will be second to you. Even my father Saul knows this.”(1 Samuel 23:16-17)

Mooncakes supplies energy, which pastors need. But encouragement supplies hope and fresh motivation for the journey ahead.

Pastors of today, more than ever, need treasure boxes like the one I have received.

Global Leadership Summit 2009 in Singapore

By kenny, 28 September, 2009, 2 Comments

GLS Singapore at Grace AGThe Global Leadership Summit 2009 was a surprisingly engaging and inspiring conference. In Christendom, there is no better Christian leadership summit than the annual event led by Bill Hybels at the Willow Creek church campus in Chicago. What was screened here in Singapore were select videoed sessions of the current conference that ended recently.  To have among the best minds and practitioners of leadership in church and society share with us their take on various  leadership issues was a treat. The videos came in two formats: one was the normal hour long talk and the other was an interview. This combination managed to keep over a thousand people from going into screensaver mode. The facilitator was senior pastor Rev Dr David Lim and he was energetic and skilled at keeping us engaged and coaxing us to process the messages in quiet solo or noisy quartets.

Here are my takeaways from the two day summit:

Best quotation: “If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.”

Most impactful session: For me it was the insightful and deep talk by Timothy Keller about the Gospel of grace. It used the elder brother of the parable of the prodigal son, to illustrate religiosity or law-driven believer. Timothy Keleer dealt with the root problem of the modern active but lifeless church. What the church needs is a new eureka akin to Martin Luther’s justification by faith but taken deeper and broader. If the church heeds this talk with greater care, it will free thousands of well meaning sons from the draining religiosity that still keeps the children of God slaving joylessly in the father’s farm. Buy his book “The Prodigal God” to access these Gospel insights on grace.

Most enlightening concept: The analogy of the process of change as a rider guiding an elephant on a path. The rider is the rational left-brain linear and logical decision. The elephant is the difficult to move emotional right-brain heavyweight that needs to be persuaded and coaxed to take the path, which is the directional changes needed.

Most innovative idea: Leveraging technology for the kingdom: how Jessica Jackley used the internet to connect donors worldwide to resource micro-financing in developing countries, thereby helping the poor of the world. Click HERE.

Most striking truth to practise until next year: How the leader’s greatest gift to his congregation is to keep his bucket full all the time. Bill Hybel’s plenary talk was not only about this but the rhema word to me was mainly this!

The location of the conference was divine: Grace II, the Grace Assembly of God branch facility. I liked it because it was near my home (in the west where the smart people live), though my friends from the east preferred the previous  location in Riverlife Church, Pasir Ris. The army of well-drilled red-shirted members of Grace AG showed enthusiasm and warmth and I was impressed with their worship team too.  Another thing I liked about the summit was the price: it was a steal when you consider the impact it would have on your leaders for weeks to come.